We are a loving family looking for more in life. We have been together for over ten years now and we have always looked at this part of our life as positive. We are a loving male and female couple with three kids. We have tried this before but none of the women have stuck... so to say they have had their own issues where they don't want to contribute to the family. For them it was more like what they could get out of the relationship. We are educated... I am Chef, I am culinary trained, and my husband is in school to become a Hazmat specialist. Since my husband is in school I work, because I want him to focus on that craziness they call lass work. I am going back to school to get my bachelors degree in a few months.