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Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and try to fly.

The basics: 24, genderqueer, pansexual, & of course, polyamorous. I've been with my partner for 9 years, and we've been poly for 8 of those.

I'm basically your average artist/music-nerd/geek. I pretty much love creation of every kind, from knitting and crocheting to pixel art and painting. I dabble in basically everything you can imagine, though my focus tends to be on digital art & writing. Overall, writing tends to be my "biggie", and the thing I'm most likely to make a career of (or what I'd like to, anyways. More on that in a moment).

As I said, I'm a complete music nerd. 9 chances out of 10, when a song comes on any 70's to now radio station, I can tell you who performs it, what time period it was released, and a fun fact or two about the artist. I thrive on modern music history as well as music itself. It's pretty much like oxygen to me, and I'm sure I can get a little annoying with how obsessed I am with it. For example, if I'm at my laptop writing, there has to be music going. I can't write without it. Period.

As for being a geek: I'm a gamer, Otaku, and all around nerd. I love video games, anime/manga, table top games (D&D, GURPS), trading card games (Magic: The Gathering, Pokemon), and am somewhat akin to a little kid when it comes to those hobbies. I want to "get into" LARPing & Cosplay, but it's difficult due to the fact that I live in the middle of nowhere, smack in the middle of the Bible belt.

As for that "important thing" called "employment", well, I'm not. Employed, that is. I'm (legally) physically disabled thanks to a host of diseases, the "primary" two being fibromyalgia & multiple sclerosis. I'm trying to work on stabilizing my health enough that I can actually get back into college so that I can find some kind of employment that I can work around my disabilities, such as freelance journalism or (fingers crossed) novel writing, at some point.

I'm not specifically looking for another woman, but it wouldn't let me choose "Anything goes", so I went for the ladies. Can't lie, I'd love to find another woman to connect with, since I seem to have a very hard time finding women who have similar interests to me and who I can really connect with, even though I love women, and love being in a relationship with a woman, as there's something that just feels very organic to me about it, and gives me a kind of peace that it's hard to explain. Aaaand now I sound like a crazy person, woohoo!

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
Height5' 2" (157 cm)
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorOther
Hair LengthShort
Best featureLips
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Visible tattoo


Has childrenNo children
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsCat, Dog
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusStudent
Job TitleDisabled College Student & Wannabe Artist

Leisure & Fun

Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Adult
Music typesRock, Electronic, Pop, Jazz, Industrial, Dance, Punk
Reading selectionAnthology, Auto-biography, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Humor, Music, Mystery, Philosophy, Poetry, Satire, Science, Science fiction, I'm an author
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Internet, Games, Family, Photography, Religion, spirituality, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Fishing, Computers


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorBoisterous
Friends describe asGoofy
In High School I was a(n)Nerd
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading a book, Playing dress-up, Playing video games, Going to a concert


Political viewsVery liberal
Attend religious servicesNever

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness